Times can be hard. Life can be hard. Each person will face
times of pain, separation, loneliness, despair, grief, and loss. These times seem
to hit us hardest during holiday seasons. We each want to be joyful and cheery.
We want to laugh, but the pain often overwhelms us. What should cause joy to
erupt from us, holidays and celebrations, causes inner turmoil and pain. Tears easily
come to our eyes as we think of that which assaults us.
Some people mean to be kind when they tell you, “Dig deep
and you can overcome the problem.” Other people say you must put your mind to
it and pull yourself out of the black, dark hole. Some people shake their heads
and consider you a weak person for allowing yourself to stay in the miry bog.
Satan wants you in that place. He pushes down on you, so you feel alone and
overwhelmed with your pain, grief, loss, loneliness, despair, and separation.
When you dig deep within yourself, you can only go as deep
as your own strength. We are human and only have mortal strength. Our strength
is not overcoming strength. Putting your mind to the problem isn’t always
enough. Our minds are fragile and not strong enough to overcome every pressure
of life. We are human and so we are not strong enough to combat alone some of
the troubles Satan throws at us. Yet, there is One who is stronger than anything
or anyone who can come against you. God, the Creator of everyone and
everything, is greater and stronger than anything the forces of darkness can hurl
at you. None of us is strong enough to combat the arrows and darts of Satan all
the time, but God is.
How does that help us while we are battling to stay afloat
in the raging waters of our troubles? Because God is greater, stronger, more
powerful, faithful, and loving, He wants to walk with us as we go through
troubling times. Nothing can overpower God; He is immortal and omnipotent. Consider
what Paul wrote to the Roman Christians in Romans 8: 28, 31, 33, 35, & 37-39,
28 And we know that God causes all things to work
together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to
His purpose.
31 What then shall we say to these things? If God
is for us, who is against us?
33 Who will bring a charge against God’s elect?
35 Who will separate us from the love of Christ?
Will tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or
peril, or sword?
37 But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer
through Him who loved us. 38 For I am convinced that neither death,
nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to
come, nor powers, 39 nor height, not depth, nor any other created
thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ
Jesus our Lord. [NASB]
Jesus is the Conqueror, and with Him as His disciples, we
can overwhelmingly conquer whatever Satan hurls toward us. Consider, too, God
said to seek Him, and He will be found. The Bible records God saying this many
times: Jeremiah 29:12-14, 2 Chronicles 7:14, 1 Chronicles 28:9, Deuteronomy
4:29, and Proverbs 8:17. Other scriptures passages state this, too. God tells
us He is always available to us; we must seek Him with our whole being-our
heart, soul, mind, and strength.
How can you get through your trials, troubles, and pain? Seek God. How do you seek God?
Pray. Humble yourself and seek Him. Ask Him
to make Himself known to you. Tell Him your troubles, pain, and difficulties.
Express your understanding that you cannot handle these alone. Give your
troubles, your burdens to Him. Paul said in Philippians 4:6, “Do not be anxious
about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving
let your requests be made known to God.” God already knows your situation, but
when you come to Him in prayer, you humble yourself and recognize you are too
feeble to fix the problem and God is almighty; He is able. Jesus said in
Matthew 11:28-30, “Come to Me, all you who are weary and heavy-laden, and I
will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle
and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is
easy, and My burden is light.” Listen for God’s guidance. Wait for Him and His
relief. Lean fully on Him. “Trust in the
Lord with all your heart and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your
ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6
[NASB]) God will be with you. He will walk with you through your hard times and
give you His strength and peace for the journey.
Read the Bible. Added to praying, you can read
the Bible, God’s Word, to hear from Him, to gain encouragement and guidance,
and to know Him better. Through Scripture reading, God reminds you how He has
worked in the past. He tells you how He wants you to live in the present. God
assures you He walks with you through this current trouble, pain, and trial. Hear
God’s words to Joshua and the Israelites in Joshua 1:5b. “I will not fail you
or forsake you.” Consider Deuteronomy 31:6, “Be strong and courageous; do not be
afraid or terrified of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you; He
will never leave or forsake you.” David wrote in Psalm 46:10-11, “Be still and
know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations. I will be exalted over
the earth. The LORD of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge.
Selah.” Over and over in the Bible, God reminds us He will be with us if we
seek Him with our whole being. God loves each of us and wants to be your God,
to guide you, give you strength, and remind you of the hope you have in Christ
Jesus.
Pray again. After you’ve read God’s Word,
and He’s brought to your mind His words and deeds of power and encouraged you,
pray again. Pray thanking Him for His love, guidance, power, and faithfulness. Pray
asking Him to give you His strength to get through your trials. Pray asking Him
to help you keep your eyes on Him and not on your storm. Pray asking Him to
fill you with His joy even in the midst of your troubles, pain, and trials. And,
if you are not a believer in Jesus Christ, pray asking Him to save you from
your sins and to give you new life in Him. God is always faithful to His
children. He says He will always be found by those who seek Him with their
whole being. When you accept Jesus Christ as your Savior, you, too, will be a
child of God.
Other. Maybe prayer and reading the Bible
is enough for you or possibly God has given you another voice by which to
express yourself. Use that voice, whether in music, song, writing, dance, art,
or whatever the medium to bring your cares before God, process His Word, and
give Him your trust, your heart, and your trouble. Let that voice help give you
release and relief by giving your cares to God. Express your faith in Him to
walk with you through your hard time, and gain strength from Him-His
faithfulness, love, and power. Consider how David felt in the midst of trials.
He took them to God and lamented to God about his situation. Then he praised
God for what He was doing and would do to bring him through those hard times.
Consider Psalm 34. David began this psalm praising God. He then moved to
acknowledging God comes to the aid of the righteous. David ended this psalm
with this comforting thought in verse twenty-two, “The LORD redeems the soul of
His servants, and none of those who take refuge in Him will be condemned.”
David and other righteous people throughout history have used this “other
voice” God gave them as a gift to talk with God, process their own situations,
and recall and resolve for themselves that God is good and is able to take care
of all our needs, including walking with us through hard times. Besides crying
out to God by your “other voice,” you can speak with a Christian pastor, elder,
or other Christian. They can pray with you and help you carry your burdens to
God while encouraging as you face your trying days.
During life’s holidays, troubles, pain, and trials can cause
us to sink within ourselves and not celebrate. If we allow them, they will keep
us in a vortex of darkness and anguish with no joy. God does not want us to go
through these times alone. He gives us hope because He loves us. God is greater
than anything that comes against us. Consider Mary. She became pregnant before
Joseph laid with her. By law, Joseph could have broken the engagement. Mary
must have been frightened about what the outcome might be. Yet, the angel told
her not to fear. (Luke 1:30) Mary trusted God to make this situation of being
pregnant outside of marriage work for good, God’s good. Joseph, when he learned
Mary was pregnant, did not want to disgrace her because he was a righteous man.
Because of this, he planned to send her away quietly so she would not have her
reputation ruined. God sent a dream to Joseph in Matthew 1:20. In that dream,
an angel of the Lord said, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary
as your wife.” Joseph gave his trouble and potential ruined reputation to God
and trusted Him to make everything work out for the best. God chooses all His
children for a purpose. He has a purpose for everyone. God’s purposes are
always for the best. Had Mary or Joseph acted on their predicament without
God’s intervention, she or he may have done good things according to the Law,
but not what was best according to God.
God is here for each person who calls on Him with their
whole being. His plans are best. God’s plan includes growing us to be more like
Jesus and to be in a close relationship with Him. That can happen through hard
times. It can happen in good times, too. Right now, if you are experiencing anguish,
pain, loneliness, trials, grief, fear, or any other difficulty, don’t give up.
Don’t isolate yourself and spiral down into the dark pit into which Satan wants
to trap you. Let Him guide you and give you strength. Your hope, our hope, is
in the Lord who made heaven and earth. This LORD God sent His Son, Jesus, to be
born as a human on earth so He could die to give us salvation and an eternal
relationship with Him. This is our hope. Jesus is our hope. If you are going
through a hard time right now; turn to God. Pray. Read the Bible. Pray again.
Use your “other voice” and bring it all to God. Seek a Christian friend or
pastor to help you. Don’t let Satan take you down into the dark pit.
There is hope.
Jesus is the hope of the world.
And once more, Isaiah says, “There shall come the root of
Jesse, and He who arises to rule over the Gentiles, in Him shall the Gentiles
hope.” Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing,
so that you will abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. (Romans
15:12-13 [NASB])
Therefore, having been justified by faith, we have peace
with God through our Lord Jesus Christ, through whom also we have obtained our
introduction by faith into this grace in which we stand; and we exult in our
tribulations, knowing that tribulation brings about perseverance; and perseverance,
proven character; and proven character, hope; and hope does not disappoint,
because the love of God has been poured out within our hearts through the Holy
Spirit who was given to us. (Romans 5:1-5 [NASB])
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the
Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our
afflictions so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any
affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God. (2
Corinthians 1:3-4 [NASB])
Oh, Lord, so often I
have felt like I couldn’t go on. I felt like the dark vortex would swallow me
and I wanted to give up. But then You, in Your great love for me and in Your
faithfulness, reminded me of Who You are, what You’ve done, and how much You
love me. Lord, You took me back to Your Word and showed me You have always been
with Your children through the hard times, and, Lord, I know Your love never
fails. You are faithful. Lord, forgive me for not coming to you sooner.
Forgive me for giving up on the hope You provide because of the death
and resurrection of Your Son, Jesus. Lord, I promise I will always walk with
You. Please walk with me now through this dark trial. Grow me to be like Your
Son and to be in a closer relationship with You because of this trial. Lord,
keep reminding me of the hope You give and fill me with Your Spirit so
that Your joy is my strength. Help me have joy and rejoice even when I
am going through darkness because of who You are. You are my strength and
shield. You are my fortress and my very present help in times of trouble.
Thank you, Lord for what You’ve done. Thank you for what You will do in my situation
and in me. Thank you for being faithful even when I lost hope and felt forsaken.
Thank you for not letting go of me when I let go of You. I love you, Lord.
Amen.