Thursday, October 25, 2018

Because God Chose You




Remember every day, God chose you.
He chose to love you before you were in your mother’s womb.
God chose to lavish His grace on you, so you would be saved from your sins and not be separated from Him.
He chose you to “be all things to all people” so that you can tell them the good news–the gospel–so some could be saved (1 Corinthians 9:22).
God chose you to bend, break, and remold you into His image because of His love.

He tells you to cast your burdens on Him because He cares for you, and to take up His yoke, which is lighter (1 Peter 5:7, Matthew 11:28-30).

Why does God allow difficult things to happen? That is a common question.
        Possibly to remind you He is God.
Possibly to cause you to seek Him so He can grow you and reshape you more into His likeness.
More than anything, difficult and easy times provide an opportunity for us to learn a big lesson we and reinforce our deep connection-our personal relationship with God.

Abraham had just received God’s promise that Sarah, his eighty-year-old wife, would have a son in less than a year. He had a relationship with God then God told him, He had to see if the outcry in Sodom and Gomorrah was accurate. Abraham had a close enough relationship with God that he began to intercede for the people of those cities (Genesis 18).

Closeness to God makes us intercede for others,
not only supplicate for ourselves.

Paul had a close relationship with God. It came through many a blinding light on the road to Damascus and through many trials of beatings and persecutions. His closeness to God brought a dramatic change to the Roman world of the first century and to humanity since then.

Closeness to God creates the heart of God in us for lost people.

It gives us love, God’s love, for all people so that we “strive to become all things for all so that we might win some to Christ (1 Corinthians 9:22).

Joshua was a strong man of God. When God sent him and 9 other men into the Promised Land to spy it out and report back to the Israelites, he told the people it was a bountiful land and that Yahweh was almighty enough to give it to them. As they prepared to enter the Promised Land, Joshua challenged the people. He reminded them who God had been and would continue to be for them. Joshua called them to renew their commitment and service to the LORD.

Closeness to God leads people to commit and serve the Lord.

A genuine heart of God in a person for other people-to serve Him, to intercede for them, and to try to win them to Christ-cannot be manmade. Nothing we can do causes us to be good enough to be acceptable to God and for His service. Only God can make each person acceptable-holy. He provided this way through His Son’s death on the cross and resurrection.

Why can God’s people do these things?
Because God chose them.
God loves them.
God empowers them.
And they love the Lord with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength.

Do you have a heart for God? Have you heard Him calling to you to come to Him? Did you go? Did you give your heart to God, so you can be saved from your sins and have an eternal relationship with the God who created and loved you before you were ever formed? Today is the perfect day for you to stop running and answer His call to your heart. Today is the perfect day to turn around from striving to survive, succeed, make it one more day in this world. Each of us sins. Whether you are saved or not, God is calling you to turn back to Him today…now. What will you say to Him? He is there calling and waiting.

Lord, we do not understand this love of Yours. We do not understand how one man dying, even Your Son, can erase our sins and make us holy. But, Lord, we want to leap in faith to You and ask You to hold us, forgive us, and remold us into Your image for Your service. Please accept the sacrifice of my sin-broken heart and make me clean and new for You. Amen.

Saturday, October 20, 2018

In Their Words: Miriam's and Etienne's Stories



 As with the other refugee stories related to you earlier, refugees and asylum-seekers told these stories directly to me. I used three questions to guide the conversation, but other than that, the people told of their experiences as a refugee and/or asylum-seeker. As much as possible, the words are exactly their own. I have corrected the grammar.

Miriam’s Story


What was life like in your home country?

My life in my country was not good. Because of the war we had to move place to place.

What made you decide to leave your country?

The reason I left my country is that from 1992 to 1999 we had a big war and the soldiers came to the houses forcing the young men to go into the army. If the soldiers came to your house, they stole things and killed people. If they found a young lady, they raped her. I was one of the women who the soldiers raped. They raped in front of my parents, sisters, and brother. That is why I left my country in 1999.

What has life been like in your host/adopted country?

 My life in my host country of South Africa is not good. I have been here since 1999. The situation is very bad. I was robbed many times, but the last time it happened in my home. We went to open a case with the police. Soon those robbers found out and got very upset. They came to warn us if we continue with the case one member of the family would die, so we had to drop the case. Still, those bad men never stopped asking about money or anything because they know my home. I am always stressed. Just imagine. My child was born here. The principals and boards of governors of the schools did not accept and let her go to high school. Thank God who always helps us. I have no place to go back home in my own country because my parents died because of what happened to me. I would like to go home, but I can’t.

Etienne’s Story


What was life like in your home country?

When I was a little boy, I thought I wanted to become a lawyer or teacher, but man can purpose in his heart and God provides and leads. I completed primary school and secondary school. In 1993, God called me to serve Him. From 1994 through now, I am a pastor.

What made you decide to leave your country?

A decision came from God about my job. In April 2016, my church appointed me to go to Cape Town as an evangelist. Remember, there is a problem with the political system in the DRC with our president. He sent a crowd of people to impose on me their system of election and their choice of candidate, not mine. I couldn’t mix the people of God with their political system. I refused their compelling. They wanted to persecute me, so my church sent me to Cape Town to be an evangelist.

What has life been like in your host/adopted country?

I like to live in South Africa to preach the Good News of God. Yet, if God wants my next step to be somewhere else, like America, Europe, Asia, etc., I will go.


Thursday, October 18, 2018

Inception: Working with Refugees, Stage Five: Being and Doing


Introductions

To intentionally do faith-based ministry with and for refugees and asylum-seekers requires God’s initiation of the ministry. This ministry requires God’s heart in each person seeking to help them. Throughout the Old Testament, God tells His people to care for the alien, orphan, and widow. In the New Testament, Jesus Christ told people to love their neighbors as themselves. When asked who was his neighbor, Jesus replied to the lawyer in Luke 10:25-37 with a parable. The answer to the lawyer’s question to Jesus came from the lawyer in verse thirty-seven. The lawyer said the neighbor was the one who showed mercy to the beaten man. This parable was about the Good Samaritan. The Samaritan did not know the beaten man laying on the side of the road, but he recognized him as a person who needed care.

Neighbors, sojourners, and aliens are people. These people whom God created and cares about are the ones He means for us to care about, too. Since God does not show partiality among people, we should not either. Since He “executes justice for the orphan and widow and shows His love for the alien” (Deuteronomy 10:18) and commands His people to show love for the alien (Deuteronomy 10:19), we must care for the people of the world whether or not we have a personal relationship with them. This understanding is the basis for any ministry to people. God initiates the ministry.

How do we get from God’s command to care for the alien to doing ministry? How do we understand God wants us to do this ministry specifically? God gives the vision/inspiration. Conception: Empowering to Serve Refugees[1] teaches about the different aspects of conceiving/envisioning a ministry from God. It also explains why we should enwrap each stage and phase of the ministry in prayer.

After conception of the ministry, many stages of inception occur. The question of “How do I get to know refugees” deals with seeking to meet the people and learn of their needs through interacting with them. Inception: Working with Refugees, Stage One: Getting to Know the Refugees[2] discusses this stage. By relating to individual refugees, one builds trust with them. With this trust bridge built, they will more willingly share about their troubles and needs. Additionally, they will trust your input and help as genuine, not self-seeking.

After meeting and beginning a relationship with the refugees, we the person/people to whom God gave the vision to help refugees and asylum-seekers must begin organizing and founding a faith-based ministry. Inception: Working with Refugees, Stage Two: Founding a Faith-based Ministry[3] helps us walk through the steps of establishing a ministry. We must recognize the importance of prayer throughout the process. This article helps us realize the need to decide between organization types, too. For an effective ministry organization, we must set up a vision statement, mission statement, goals, and objectives.

An organization can survive without connecting with other organizations and people for a while. Eventually, connection needs to occur for the organization to be relevant and to get resources. Inception: Working with Refugees, Stage Three: Connecting[4] tells us why connecting with others in the community, city, state, and nation are important for the refugee ministry to which God called you. We connect with others to get volunteers, funding, enlarge the ministry, get more expertise, and to advocate for refugees and asylum-seekers.

Having received God’s vision, met the refugees, created an organizational plan, and connected initially with the refugees and asylum-seekers, the ministry is ready to begin. Inception: Working with Refugees, Stage Four: “On Your Marks”[5] guides in the practical work of starting the ministry. The ministry organization must find a place in which to house the ministry program(s). It must acquire resources. Funds must be on hand to buy the basic supplies for the ministry, i.e. paper, pencils, pens, books, blankets, food, etc. We must cast a vision, so volunteers will join to help refugees so more than one set of hands-yours-work at the vision God gave you. Advertising in the community about the refugee assistance ministry must happen so the “neighbors/aliens” God wants you to help will realize help is available.

With each of these phases and stages accomplished, “day one” can occur. What happens with “day one”? What steps are involved? Is it more than just performing the ministry task? This article will answer these questions and others.

Being and Doing

The beginning of the faith-based ministry can literally consider just day one of the program or the first week, first month, or first year. What is important in any of these time frames is the effective being and doing of faith-based ministry to refugees and asylum-seekers. Planning and founding the ministry is often long and involved. The first day of actual ministry is exciting and sometimes exhausting.

Prayer

Prayer is still the vital necessity for faith-based ministries. It keeps us connected to God. Prayer reminds us who initiated the ministry and called us to join Him. It keeps us focused on God and His call so that when days are difficult, we remember the basis of the ministry. It also helps us as we prepare for each day and, at the end of the day, assess and adjust the material or the ministry itself. Prayer must continually enwrap each step, stage, and phase of the faith-based ministry. Without it, we lose connection with God, minister in our own strength and way, and lose focus of the purpose-to love our neighbor as ourselves.

Prepare

Obviously, you have spent weeks and months preparing to start the faith-based ministry to refugees and asylum-seekers. It became an exciting part of your daily life. When day one, the opening or starting day, is tomorrow or this week, ministry-specific actions must happen. These actions can include:
1.      Ensuring the venue is ready for use-chairs and tables are available and set up, floors are clean, the doorway is not cluttered or blocked, etc.
2.      Prepare the lessons if you will teach English
3.      Train and prepare volunteers for day one
4.      Make copies of intake forms or registration forms
5.      Make sure supplies are easily accessible
6.      Pray with volunteers and other supporters the night before or day one of the ministry.

Present

As day one or week one arrives, the actual ministry occurs. One needs to make sure everything is ready including one’s self. This includes heart, spirit, mind, and body, and the practical ministry. People receiving help can perceive when the person assisting them is condescending, uninformed, prejudiced, or not prepared for that ministry. What needs doing for day one’s ministry?
1.      Prayer-make sure you and each of the volunteers are “being” the ministry vision which God gave. People can sense when an “act” is being put on. Make sure your heart and spirit are in tune with God’s and you “love your neighbor as yourself.”
2.      Make sure you understand very well the ministry you are offering. Know the English lesson. Know the amount of food according to organization policy for a family or four, five, etc. Make sure the food nutrition tables are easily available, so you can get the food without faltering. Ensure the clothes are clean and organized. Make sure the rules of behavior are visible and known to everyone who enters the premises.
3.      Make sure you understand the ministry’s goals, objectives, and policies well, so you can explain to the person receiving help what you can and cannot offer.
4.      Keep a sensitive heart so you willingly and actively listen to the refugees’ stories, pray with them, and cry with them.
5.      Take a break so you can process what has happened, can pray about people, pain, and fear. This prayer break brings yourself to God for refreshing and healing after dealing with traumatized people.

Assess

After day one, the first week, the first month, and the first year, assessment of the ministry should occur. Assessment is important to make sure the purpose of the ministry is being done. This assessment will determine if the ministry you perceived and heard was necessary is the one being expressed most by the refugees and asylum-seekers when they seek help. It will also include determining if you are meeting needs accurately and appropriately.
1.      Do the people really need clothes for an interview or rather do they need to learn how to look for jobs and how to interview?
2.      Is the greatest need of this refugee population English or is it rent help or food or counselling?

Assessment will include looking at the way the work is being done by each member of the team.
1.      Is the plan of ministry being done in the way the team leader or ministry board wants?
2.      Are each of the team members helping refugees with a servant heart?
3.      Do any of the team members seem prejudiced or have complaints arisen against one of the team members?
4.      Is more training necessary for team members?
5.      Do team members need counselling/debriefing after hearing refugee stories?
6.      Do we need a trained professional to join the team in a particular area?

Adjust

With answers to these and other questions, the team leader and members should adjust the ministry, what they do and the way they do it, for it to be more effective for refugees and asylum-seekers. If the real need is counselling, seek one or two counsellors in the city or community who would volunteer their time. Alternatively, seek training for trauma healing counselling for the ministry team members. If the need is something else, seek ways to meet that need, after you have prayed asking God’s wisdom. If the need is more than what you perceived, seek more funding so the ministry can provide other necessities.

If the assessment determines a need for change among the team members, speak to the team about the issue and need. Address any specific team member whose attitude hinders the ministry. Help him or her see what is happening. Offer ways to help that person be more effective in the ministry role. Decide if more training for the team is necessary and set up that training time. Include in each day of ministry time for team members to debrief individually and collectively. As the team leader, you will need to make time to minister to the team members. The team members are an important resource and their needs are important to the ministry, too.

Prayer

Finally, at the end of day one, week one, month one, year one, the team leader should set aside a time of prayer. This time will be time to reconnect with God more intently about the ministry to refugees. It will be a time of reflection with God and a time of opening your own heart to Him for readjustment to His will and way. This time with the Lord will also be a time of resting with the Father and preparing for the race ahead. The prayer time will guide you on how better to minister to the refugees and asylum-seekers and where God wants to expand the ministry.

Conclusion

The arrival of day one brings excitement and trepidation. Are you ready? Are the team members ready? Have you heard from the Lord correctly? Have you heard correctly when talking to refugees and asylum-seekers? These questions each can weigh you down with worry or can lift you with excitement depending on from where you received your guidance-God or people. Day one should be exciting. Meeting new people. Helping them. Sharing God’s love. Seeing lives changed. Day one should also provide insight into whether changes need to occur to make sure the ministry focuses on the need God wants met. It brings with it assessment and adjustment for the team, too. More than anything, day one brings the opportunity for you and the team members to join God in the work He is doing. It’s a chance to know God better and to grow in your relationship with Him through prayer and obedience.

Through it all, we should remember what Jesus told the people by answering the Pharisee’s question. In trying to trick Jesus, the Pharisee asked, “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” We recall His famous reply. Jesus said,
“’You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the great and foremost commandment. The second is like it. ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 22:35-40 [NASB])
Putting these two great commandments into action requires a relationship with God. A relationship with God draws us closer to Him to love Him more dearly. John put this relationship of our love for God and obedience into a more understandable statement in 1 John 5:2-3. He said,
“By this we know that we love the children of God, when we love God and observe His commandments. For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments; and His commandments are not burdensome.”
We need to ask ourselves these questions and seek God’s will. Are we loving God with our whole being? Are we loving our neighbors as ourselves? Day one, week one, year one, and year one-plus requires absolute obedience to God and His vision of ministry to refugees and asylum-seekers.

Tuesday, October 16, 2018

Coup de Grace: His Blow of Grace


“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice! Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near. Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:4-7 [NASB]

Verses four through seven spoke to me. We all know these verses, but I don’t think I had seen them this way before. Verses four through six are commands. Verse seven is a blessing of shalom, heart peace that only God can give. After you have done those three things in verses four through six, then you have blessing-from Paul and from God. As I walked through those commands, I was like, “Yeah, yeah,” but then connections were made that hadn’t been there before for me. And I was like “Yes, I am going to have shalom!”  I am claiming. And I prayed that way for my family this morning.

Verse four: “Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice.” Rejoice at what God is going to do, at what He has done, at what He is doing, and at Who He is-I AM, Immanuel, Creator, Savior, Provider, etc.

Verse five: “Let your gentle spirit be known to all men. The Lord is near.” Don’t let what happens to you deter you from being who God has made you to be. Show the world God’s goodness, kindness, compassion, love, grace, mercy, and forgiveness even when things are not what you want them to be.

Verse six: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your request be made know to God.” This one has been on my radar for years. Thanksgiving is not something I regularly do. Maybe you are like me. Today, I began thinking of all the things I could be thankful for and recognizing they all come from God’s hands.

Then the coup de grace (There is a reason grace is part of this French idiom.) is in verse seven. “And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.” When you do these things, you will have peace because you recognize from where peace comes. God is your peace. Nothing that comes against you will prevail when you thank God for who He is, rejoice no matter what your circumstances, continue to be gentle in spirit, being anxious for no thing at all, but seek to keep in relationship with the Lord. This is how you have peace. And you don’t have it because you manufacture it. You have heart peace because of God’s grace, His blow of grace-the soft breeze that glides by your skin or the tumultuous wind that gets your attention and you know, despite it, you have peace because you are in a relationship with God.

What is coup de grace normally? In French, it’s an idiom that means a mercy killing, or the blow of grace. We could say that is what God does with His mercy toward us. His Son’s crucifixion was a mercy killing to save us from a dying misery. It’s God’s blow of grace on us that gives us eternal heart peace. Paul meant this when he wrote, “And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” God’s blow of grace may be a soft breeze across your mind or heart or may be a stiff knock to get you to that place, but His peace, no matter what your circumstances, will guard you and keep you. It’s a heart peace-shalom-that comes from knowing God, from being in a saving relationship with Him.

Verse seven is the coup de grace when you look at those four verses together. His blow of grace-His heart peace-will keep your hearts and minds when you rejoice always, remain gentle in spirit, stay calm and un-anxious, while giving thanks in expectation. Grow and keep on growing in your relationship with God and this peace, this shalom-heart peace-will be yours. That is coup de grace. This coup de grace is a different way to look at the French idiom, a Christian way.

Then finally we get to the familiar “whatevers” list in verse eight. Dwelling on the “whatevers”-whatever is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely, of good repute, excellent, worthy of praise-can only happen because of having a close relationship with God and because they come from Him. Paul didn’t stop with the command to dwell on them. He told the people to practice them. Why? Because the “God of heart peace will be with you.” Just as Jesus taught people what comes out of a person in words and actions comes from his or her heart, Paul told the people to put into action those excellent things that God puts in them by practicing them. Following these last two commands, Paul gave a promise. The same promise he gave the people in verse seven. When you do these things, God’s heart peace will be with you.

It's not a magic trick. You don’t do things just to get peace. You have peace, God’s peace, the blow of God’s grace, when you are in a saving relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. The grace that brings each of us into relationship with God upon our profession of faith in Jesus as our Savior is how we get this peace. When you are in a relationship with God through Jesus, you dwell on those excellent things that come from God, and you have heart peace because God is with you.

A big sigh is expressed as relief and release enters and we understand much better than before. Rejoice. Show your gentle spirit from God. Be anxious for nothing but pray and supplicate with thanksgiving. These things come from the mind and “the peace of God that surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ.” More than this, dwell on excellent and praise-worthy things, which only come from God, then practice them. And again/still, the God of peace shall be with you. Three verses of commands, then a promise of God’s peace. Next, two commands, and again a promise of God’s peace, heart peace.

Are you ready to breathe that sigh of relief? Are you seeking heart peace, the peace that passes all understanding? God gives it through His Son, Jesus Christ. Come walk in relationship with God. Rejoice. Be anxious for nothing. Have access to the Father through the Son. Be thankful before God answers prayer. Think on excellent and praise-worthy things and practice them. Receive unending heart and soul peace, the blow of God’s grace across your heart, soul, mind, and body. His merciful love calls to you.

Lord, God, many times I did not rejoice always. I was anxious and did not seek You first. I acted and reacted based on my best judgments or on my fears. Help me to walk with You so I can keep my eyes focused on You. Help me to recognize Your grace and merc,y and sway towards Your ways instead of my own ways. Forgive me my stubbornness and conceit thinking that I always know what is right. Without You, I flounder and fail. With You, I have learned I can have Your peace-heart peace-even in the middle of difficult times because You are God and nothing surprises You. Amen.

Monday, October 8, 2018

In Their Words: Claudine and Mado's Stories


As in the other stories from refugees, Claudine and Mado recall traumatic days. Though their lives and those of their families have been difficult since fleeing their home country of the Democratic Republic if the Congo, they still find hope and joy. Is it possible for each of us to learn something from the lives of refugees about expecting and experiencing God’s hand of protection and provision? Read below and hear the voices of these two women.

Claudine

Question 1: What was life like in your home country?

Life in my country was good until I lost my parents. I had no one to support my studies for a computer degree. I didn’t finish the degree because there was a huge misunderstanding between my parents and their families before they died. Afterward, I was chased from my parent’s house with my young brothers and sisters by our uncles. Fortunately for us, the church that I attended decided to take care of us by arranging for a shelter and our other needs.

Question 2: What made you decide to leave your country?

The reason I left my home country was I was wanted by the government because of the strikes and protests organized by the youth commissions against the war, crime, rape, and killing of the people of the country’s provinces. Some of the organizers were shot and killed by my country’s soldiers. Others escaped to different countries. I was among those who escaped to South Africa. That happened in 2009. My husband followed me to South Africa.

Question 3: What has life been like in your host/adopted country?

Life in South Africa is difficult since I gave birth to my 3 children. My husband works as a car guard in a parking lot and he does not earn much money. I work in the community at the grocery store as a counter hand at the bakery. The pay is very little for surviving, especially since pay day is only at month end. I must think about rent, electricity, water, food, children’s transportation and school fees, and other needs. My husband and I are just working for rent, water, and electricity. Sometimes we struggle for food, but we always survive by the grace of God.

Mado

Question 1: What was life like in your home country?

When we lived in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC), the army and prejudiced people would come to my husband and threaten to kill him because his mother was from the Tutsi tribe of Rwanda. They fled Rwanda during the war when he was a child. He grew up in DRC, but still they wanted to kill him. Sometimes when they came to our home to threaten to kill him, they would rape me. I still can’t talk about those times.

Question 2: What made you decide to leave your country?

We came to South Africa because of fear for my husband’s life, fear that I would be raped again, and fear for our six children’s futures. I was a teacher in the DRC. One day we ran for our lives and I did not think to bring my teaching certificates.

Question 3: What has life been like in your host/adopted country?

Now in South Africa, I have 8 children. My children go to a Catholic school and I pay some of the tuition fees by being a volunteer teacher. I also have a tent covering a table from which I sell food in small bags that my countrymen like to eat. I sell this food outside one of the city’s busy train stations. It does not give enough money for us to eat more than one meal a day and to rent one room in an apartment for my whole family of ten people.

Four years ago, a missionary surprised us when she brought food for my whole family to last for a month. On that morning, my children fought over the last tablespoon of porridge. My husband asked, “What are we going to do?” I said, “God will provide.” God provided that very day when the missionary came to our room. She brought a month’s supply of food for all ten of us to eat three times a day.

Conclusion

Mado and Claudine faced atrocities most of us will only ever hear about, but not experience. Their lives are not easier regarding employment and paying for rent, food, and utilities. Claudine and Mado and their families face prejudice and discrimination from the nationals in their adopted countries. Yet, they expect God to intervene for them. These ladies know who the Provider is. Mado and Claudine, too, help their fellow countrymen and woman who are in desperate need by sharing their supplies, too. All the while, they give God glory when He provides in ways each of us take for granted.