Friday, November 2, 2018

Choosing to Love




In John 14:15, Jesus said to His disciples, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” Before this verse, the disciples questioned Jesus about how to get to where He was going. Jesus explained if they knew Him, then they knew the Father and His love. He also said, the works He does, the disciples would do, too, because He goes to the Father. Next, Jesus instructed them to pray to the Father in His name asking for anything. He said He would do it-answer their prayers.

Notice, keeping Christ’s commandments comes after Jesus told them the Father loves them, He is going to the Father, the disciples would do works like Him, and they could pray asking the Father for help. Each of these assumes a personal, impacting relationship with Jesus. Without Jesus, they would not know the Father. Without Him, they would not know the works to do. Without Jesus, their prayers would have no intercessor. From this, Jesus next spoke verse fifteen.

With verse fifteen, Jesus made a profound statement for which the disciples possibly had not connected all the dots. He spoke a conditional statement with a command. Jesus said, “If you love Me.” Jesus never demanded love, obedience, or people to follow Him. Love should never have to resort to these, for these are not love. Demanded loved is involuntary slavery. Jesus never required the disciples love Him. Love of Jesus is willful; it is voluntary. Each person chooses to love or not love Jesus. It is not a requirement for living on earth. What kind of love, then, did Jesus speak about in this verse? This love is agape love. The love of Christ by any person is a preferring of Him over all others, including one’s self. This kind of love is a choosing to embrace Him and what He stands for in our hearts and our lives. Each person who chooses to love Jesus and live in this kind of relationship with Him prefers to do what Jesus wants and loves. This kind of love prefers the other person over one’s self. It is a putting of self after loving the other, a doing what the other wants instead of what you want. This love is self-sacrificial, voluntary, and submissive.

When we consider this kind of love beside the other part of this conditional command, we understand better what Jesus said to the disciples. Jesus said, “If you love Me, you will keep My commandments.” If you love me self-sacrificially like I love you, you will choose to follow and do what I prefer, which is, in a nutshell, love the Lord with all your being and love your neighbor as yourself. What Jesus said was more than that. His commandments to the disciples involved that love, but it went further. He told them to go to their Jerusalem, Judea, Samaria, and the uttermost parts of the earth, make disciples of all nations, baptize them in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, and teach them to obey everything He commanded them. Basically, Jesus told them to do what they saw Him do-love God, love people, and obey the Father by living in His power and with His direction. “Keeping” as Jesus told the disciples is guarding, preserving, and doing His commandments. “Keep” involved hearing the command, then deciding it worthy enough to make one’s own so you act upon it. “Keeping” is hearing, accepting, and acting upon.

“Loving” and “keeping” are choices for something that requires understanding with our minds, and accepting in our hearts and minds, which then results in actions because of, in line with, and in the power and direction of God. “Keeping” comes out of “love” for Christ and the Father. Loving Christ and keeping His commandments first changes our hearts, then changes our lives.

By loving and keeping God’s commandments, we become more like Christ, see the Father’s face/presence more because we are closer to Him in relationship, and the people around us experience God in our actions and words. Our “keeping” shows our love of God. Our love of God shows itself to people around us. When we truly love God, the “keeping” is inconsequential; it becomes an automatic result of our love for God, so of course we will obey Him. Our deep, devoted connection with God means we will do His will…period. There is no waffling on this; our love for Him overwhelms us so we cannot not do His will. Our will becomes His will and we must act upon it. It is who and Whose we have become. God’s will becomes our will when we live as one with Christ. In doing God’s will, we fulfill God’s plan for our lives and affect other people’s lives, so they see and hear about God and have a choice to love and follow Him, too.

Verse fifteen speaks of the preference to live with God, to choose to live with Him in His power and direction, and to choose to do His will, knowing His will is perfect and leads to others seeing, knowing, and loving Him. First, we must decide for ourselves, do we love Jesus? Do we have such a deep, devoted relationship with Him that obeying His commandments is second nature to us? How will people hear about God and His grace unless we have a deep, impactful relationship with Him? Paul stated it this way in Romans 10:14-15a,

How then will they call on Him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in Him whom they have not heard? And how will they hear without a preacher? 15 How will they preach unless they are sent? [NASB]

Lord, please help me love You so deeply and profoundly that You impact the lives of people around me with Your love and presence. Teach me to love You completely and make my words and actions come from obedience to You and Your commands. Use my life to help people know You and choose to be in a relationship with You. Amen.